Wednesday, January 21, 2015

7 Things I Learnt from My Time Abroad

1. Bring your own beer to house parties.
I'm not sure if this only extends to Melbourne, but I went to a house party empty handed once. It was so awkward because nobody knew what to do. The one thing that broke the ice was someone asking, "are those your Asian neighbours here to complain about the noise?"

2. Don't underestimate how heavy groceries are.
Cos I did, not just once, but especially during that first trip I took to the supermarket. Adam was running a high fever, it was our first night in the apartment and there was no food. So I ran out to buy groceries so I could make him homecooked food, thinking it would comfort him. It was horrible. Not only was that my first attempt at Chinese food (I still shudder thinking about how bad it tasted) but I bought big bottles of dark and light soya sauce (cos I didn't know which to use), cooking oil, a small bag of rice and ingredients for stir fried vege, steamed egg with mince meat. Who knew everything could add up to be so heavy? And our apartment was 15 minutes away! I should've just stuck to fried luncheon meat and sweet corn soup.

3. It is amazing how far you can walk.
It really is. During a trip to the city, I was adamant about getting somewhere which resulted in blisters and newlost respect for me and my ability to follow directions from google maps. I kept saying it's up ahead, for about half an hour. But at least we got there. The point is, little by little, one truly goes far.

4. It is perfectly okay to talk to strangers.
The first few times a stranger tried to strike up a conversation with me was weird. But after a while it started to be nice. These interactions range from simple idle talk to full out philosophical debates and it's wonderful. You meet and click and then you leave each other to it. I guess in a way, that's kinda beautiful.

5. Home is where you want it to be.
I raged about leaving Kuching when I was 13, swearing I would get out of this town and fly off somewhere, never to return. By the time I was 18, nothing could make me leave. But my dad convinced me that I should. When I was abroad, all I wanted was to come home. But when I did, my room was gone and the house I lived in for 20 over years felt different. It was then I realized that home is only where you want it to be and I unpacked and came home again.

6. You can drink tap water. 
This blew my mind. I was so dubious. But then it became fun trying to convince the other International students that it's safe to drink from the tap. And even convincing the locals that you have to boil or filter water in Malaysia took some effort. So really, we only believe what we know. Once you learn to accept that, you learn be a bit more empathetic and understanding. You become a bit less impatient and a little more kind. You can't fault others for believing all that they know.

7. Don't take things personally.
Then you learn that maybe the way a person acts could be culture, it could be upbringing, it could be just the way they are. But whatever it is, you realize you shouldn't take things personally, that nobody is against you. People are far too selfish for that. They are for what they believe in, they are for themselves. Even when what they do seem to suggest otherwise, because how someone treats you, is a reflection of themselves... Not the other way around.

Friday, January 16, 2015


It's still nerve wrecking.
But I'll be on at these times:

Tomorrow: 11am - 3pm 
26th Jan - 4th Feb: 10am - 3pm 

95.3FM for Kuching, 105.8FM for Miri. 

Wednesday, January 14, 2015

Review: Beauty Talk 3D Refining Day Cream

I loved the Beauty Talk Double Cleansing Gel so much I was super stoked when HiShop sent me this all purpose primer that is moisturizing and whitening makeup base, with UV protection and anti-aging properties!

For more details about it, click:

Sounds like a dream come true, right? Furthermore, the application is really smooth and it really made my skin look radiant and flawless despite its light consistency!

However, I noticed that my face gets pretty shiny even though I've only been in the office and during my last facial, the facialist commented that my pores were extremely clogged and asked if I remove my makeup properly, which I'm sure I do. So, I'm guessing it just isn't suitable for my sensitive combination skin. But don't let that put you off from getting it. It has glowing reviews and just cos it didn't work for me, doesn't mean it won't work for you, especially since I have very temperamental skin.

It's weird though, because on the box, it mentions that it soothes and repairs with chamomile, which shouldn't irritate my skin... Maybe in a couple of weeks when my skin settles, I'll try again (ahah yes, I can be that stubborn because I refuse to accept it didn't turn out another HG product) but then again... Maybe my skin just didn't like some other ingredient. I know nothing about ingredients, but you might, so here's the full list for your reference:

Pure water Glyceryl Strearate Acetyl Hexapeptide-8 Iron Oxide (Black)
Cyclopentasiloxane Glycerin Hydrolyzed Soy Protein Fragrance
Sodium Acrylates Copolymer Ceteareth-12 Hydrolyzed Wheat Protein Hydrogenated Lecithin
Paraffinum Liquidum Cetyl Palmitate Iron Oxide (Red) Magnesium Ascorbyl Phosphate
PPG-1 Trideceth-6 C12-15 Aklyl Benzoate Methylparaben Choleth-20
Isononyl Isononanoate Butylene Glycol Imidazolidinyl Urea PEG-100 Hydrogenated Castor Oil
Caprylic/Capric Triglyceride Titanium Oxide Chamomile Flower Extract Triethylhexanoin
Cetearyl Isononanoate Tocopheryl Acetate Propylene Glycol Cholesterol
Ceteareth-20 Cyclopentasiloxane Acerola Fruit Extract Mica
Cetearyl Alcohol Dimethiconol Iron Oxide (Yellow) 29 Ingredients! 

Looks like Latin, doesn't it? Some foreign language that some multi-talented people manage to master. But anyway, if you wanna try the cream for yourself, it's on sale right now!! But if you're eyeing something else, get a 15% discount with this code: VEYRONIQA. Happy shopping and...

Thursday, January 1, 2015

Hey, 2015.

The weather was so beautiful today.
Perfectly breezy with overcast skies. 
I wish it could be like this forever. 
It feels like a good start to a good year.

This Saturday, I'll be on air from 11AM to 3PM.
95.3FM if you're in Kuching, 105.8FM for Miri! 

Honestly though, it feels unreal.
But yea, dreams do come true.